Question #1:
I'm scared I'm leading him on and I don't know what to do?
So one of my guy friends liked me when we first became friends. I became friends with him when I was in a tough spot. I had no best friend (we stopped being friends) me and my boyfriend broke up (I dumped him but it's complicated) and I felt generally alone. I just wanted someone to hang out with and he made me feel accepted. The thing was, he wanted to be all coupley and stuff. I would kind of cuddle with him if we were watching a movie and I would let him put his arm around me even though I felt kind of uncomfortable sometimes because I was afraid if I said anything he would stop being my friend. Also, I think I wanted the feeling of being liked by a guy even though when it came down to it I felt weird about being coupley with a guy that wasn't my ex. I don't think he would do that but I was really paranoid because I had been ditched so many times. I got a best friend though and we stopped hanging out as much. Plus, he was getting kind of obessed with me and it was annoying. Towards the end of the year we hung out again and he told me he didn't like me anymore and he liked someone else. For some reason this hurt me. I felt like I wasn't good enough or something. The summer went by and I was dealing with ex boyfriend drama. At the end of the summer we hung out and this time he didn't make any advances. We hung out for seven hours pretty much and we just talked about everything that had been bugging us. That was one of the best times I had all summer and I didn't feel any pressure from him like I felt before. This time I wasn't offended when he told me why he stopped liking me. He said it was because I was really indecisive and also, he was making it sound like I wasn't smart enough for him? Like we couldn't have discussions about classic books or whatever. He's a genius btw. We hung out for the first time in a while yesterday and it was way different than the last time. I have a strong feeling he likes me again but I don't know why. He also has been acting kind of pervish which is completely unlike him. He is the only teenage boy I know that is geniuely mature. Now, he's all "oh let's cuddle even more than we used too", "we should cuddle in our swimsuits" "you should 'butt dip' me." (that's kind of a joke we came up with, don't ask), and now he keeps asking to go to my house and he even asked me to homecoming. I felt like I was on the verge of starting to like him because we were all cuddly and he smelled really good. I felt safe and it wasn't like a physical attraction it was emotional, but then he was all "you know if I still liked you, this would be awkward." I was kind of upset by this but my best friend told me that he was probably lying because if he said he liked me it would be weird. Now that I think about it, I think it was complete bull. He's showing every sign in the book that he likes me. The thing is though, I'm so scared to pursue something. I'm scared to like him because I don't think I do like him. Well, it's a big question mark thing. How I feel about him changes. I'm scared I'm leading him on and that if I say anything about how I'm questioning how I feel I'm going to crush him but then again what if he doesn't like me at all and I do start to like him and then I get hurt? Also, one of my really good friends dated him for 7 months in 8th grade (we're in 10th grade now) and that was like her first love. I wouldn't want to do that to her because I know how it feels when your ex persues one of your friends and it hurts. I couldn't do that to her. Plus, I don't want his parents to think I'm suddenly a skank or something because I date him. His parents love me and I don't want to jeopordize it. Also I'm still hung up on my ex even though I have no excuse too. It's not fair because my guy friend is pretty everything I want in a guy but I'm not physically attracted to him really. He's not ugly but I don't know. It's not like a spark. Plus, I don't want to date until I feel like it's the right person. I don't want to force myself into anything. My friends all want us to go out though because they think we'd be a cute couple. I'm just sick of the pressure and I don't want to lead him on anymore or hurt him or lose him. What do I do? Help? Sorry this was so long btw. thanks!Question #2:
Cute style swimsuits for Curvy girls?
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This is what i have right now, and i feel SUPER frumpy. I'd really like a tankini, but I cant find anywhere that sells ones I like! Help?
Im curvy, but NOT plus size. Im about a 13 in jeans.
Question #3:
What do you think of these swimsuits?
Another question got me actually looking at swim suits,,,now I would like to know your opinions on these. I am a plus sized girl (size 14-16) and always thought the idea of a "swim dress" was supper granny-ish,...but I think some of these are actually sort of cute! What do you think? And which ones in specific do you think are cuter than the others? Or do you have any other kind of suit in mind htat you think would look cute on me? Thanks!Click Here
Thanks, scorpio. I don't mind it really, I just want to look good, I'm sure you know what I mean...
Question #4:
Could I model? Please, it's my dream.?
Hi everyone. I was wondering if I'm the right size to model. Modeling has always been my dream, but I'm just not sure.I'm a girl, I'm 5'9", and my measurements are 34-27-37. Could I be a swimsuit model? Runway model? Plus-size model? Glamor model? Fitness model? Lingerie model? Anything?
I'm 35 pounds, btw. And I'm not asking about what my face looks like, I'm asking fir your opinion based on my weight and stuff.
I'm 135 pounds, btw. And I'm not asking about what my face looks like, I'm asking fir your opinion based on my weight and stuff.
Question #5:
Embarrassing question, please help? Self conscious?
I'm going to a party today. It's a pool party.Due to a birth defect, my chest is deformed (my rib cage juts out on one side more than the other, and I have a sunken in area in the middle of my chest - I think it's called a Pectus excavatum? this is what it looks like but a mine's a deeper Click Here ) I'm a teen and I'm still kind of flat, but not completely. But what boobs I have look weird in a swim suit (the left is bigger than the right, and when I bend over you can see ALL of the right one because it doesn't fill out the other side quite right. And the sunken in area of my chest is very visible and looks weird. Plus I have a long scar on my stomach due to surgery I had to help it.)
You can't see any of this when I'm wearing clothes but it's really obvious in a swimsuit and I'm very self conscious about it. I'm going to a pool party today and I don't want to wear a suit, but I don't want to be a party pooper. The problem is I only have one little Nike tankini that doesn't show as much but I feel kind of stupid wearing it, due to the fact that there are a lot of girls coming who I know are going to show up in teeny bikinis, and then i'll feel like a dork. Plus there will be some guys from my school there and I don't want to look stupid. What should I do?
Thank you in advance!
Question #6:
Where can I get a cheap Retro swimsuit like this one?
Im going to myrtle beach soon and I really need to find a retro swimsuit like this...Click Here
Im not skinny so if you could help me, look for it, also in plus size. or XL?? Thanks SOO much!!!!
Question #7:
whatt to do i hate my life ? :(?
okay i doubt any of you care but i hate my life :( my friends dont do anything with me. I just broke up with my boyfriend cause im an idiot and i want him back.Im not allowed to date so the person tht would make me happy, well i cant see him. My mom and dad make me so mad that i just want to die. i guess like i love them, but my dad is always bitter and always pointed out how evil someone is or ANYTHING tht could possibly go wrong. he always tells everyone what to do, and then decides to be nice the next second. My mom is really paranoid she yells at me for everything, she even yells at me cause i got one B.. one B! she is really lazy quit her job and just sits on her ass all day. she never helps me with anything, she falls a sleep a concerts and doesnt pay attention at my games. They rarely say goood job or i love you oranything. no one eats dinner together, my brother is really mean to me, and i think he is gay on top of that. Whenever i ask for something my mom starts going into we dont have any money, but almost every weekend, they go out and buy new furniture. just now i asked for twenty dollars so i could buy some shorts for marching band and tampons for band camp, they said no, because they just bought me a swimsuit and they pid for band camp. I dont really think thats fair the couch was 2 thousand dollars and the end tables were 200 dollars plus another hundred and they bought a chandaler also. my mom always gets whatever she wants at any time, and she doesnt even work anymore. I just ask for the simplest things and i get the boot.My parents never get along i dont even know why they are married they and they are just bad parents.i try to talk and play with my family but they all ignore me or yell at me for being a "smart ass". Im just Very sad and i really dont know what to do anymore.:((
im fourteen so i can't do much for myself its just depressing...
no one prob even read this, because no one gives a shit
im sorry chris :(
Question #8:
Tell me what you think about this nudie experience with a guyfriend?
So I'm friends with this guy who lives down the street, and we've been running buddies for the past year and a half or so. We'll both be sophomores in highschool this fall. We hang out at my house playing video games and watching movies like every day, and we go running 3 or 4 times a week. But there have never been any sort of romantic implications or anything like that. I mean I kinda like him, and I kinda think he likes me, but I'm not really sure.Anyway, we were doing one of our 6 mile cross-country trails last week, and we usually go at 7am before it gets too hot, but this particular day we left at like 11am. It was brutally hot and humid. Well, a little more than halfway through, the trail tracks along the river for about a mile and a half. And at first it was just sorta like playfully "Oh man, that looks amazing right now" "Yeah, seriously. That would feel so good!" "You should jump in" "Haha. YOU should jump in", etc... and after awhile of that, it got to be more serious, like "yeah, we should definitely jump in!". Then I was like "I wish we had swimsuits." and he was like "well we could go in naked!." and i was like "are you serious?." and he said "yeah. i won't tell if you don't". So I told him he had to go first. He walked down the bank, took all his clothes off, and jumped in totally butt naked! Then he looks at me and says "okay, your turn." and i was like "i dont know...". then he said "you have to! plus it feels amazing!" so i walked down on the bank where he had gone in, and told him to look away. It was still freakin hot outside, but i was literally shivering when i took my clothes off. Then i took a deep breath and jumped in completely 100% butt naked. Then to wear off the awkwardness, for about 2 minutes, we just laughed histerically and said over and over again how good it felt. Then after those couple of minutes, it was sorta like how we always are, when we're dressed. We talked about normal stuff as we were swimming around.
So then he decides to get out of the water and rest on this big boulder about 100 yards downstream from where we jumped in. I was a little nervous about seeing him naked, and alot nervous about him seeing me. But i followed him up there. So we just hung out and talked for like a whole hour, butt naked, in plain view of each other, on top of that boulder. But nothing happened. We didnt make out or do anything like that. It was just like normal hanging out. Then we walked back to where our clothes were, got dressed, and finished our jog. (well actually we kinda walked the rest of the way). What does this all mean? Was I supposed to make a move? Does this mean he likes me? How am I supposed to act around him now?
Question #9:
Interesting experience in the woods with a guy?
So I'm friends with this guy who lives down the street, and we've been running buddies for the past year and a half or so. We'll both be sophomores in highschool this fall. We hang out at my house playing video games and watching movies like every day, and we go running 3 or 4 times a week. But there have never been any sort of romantic implications or anything like that. I mean I kinda like him, and I kinda think he likes me, but I'm not really sure.Anyway, we were doing one of our 6 mile cross-country trails last week, and we usually go at 7am before it gets too hot, but this particular day we left at like 11am. It was brutally hot and humid. Well, a little more than halfway through, the trail tracks along the river for about a mile and a half. And at first it was just sorta like playfully "Oh man, that looks amazing right now" "Yeah, seriously. That would feel so good!" "You should jump in" "Haha. YOU should jump in", etc... and after awhile of that, it got to be more serious, like "yeah, we should definitely jump in!". Then I was like "I wish we had swimsuits." and he was like "well we could go in naked!." and i was like "are you serious?." and he said "yeah. i won't tell if you don't". So I told him he had to go first. He walked down the bank, took all his clothes off, and jumped in totally butt naked! Then he looks at me and says "okay, your turn." and i was like "i dont know...". then he said "you have to! plus it feels amazing!" so i walked down on the bank where he had gone in, and told him to look away. It was still freakin hot outside, but i was literally shivering when i took my clothes off. Then i took a deep breath and jumped in completely 100% butt naked. Then to wear off the awkwardness, for about 2 minutes, we just laughed histerically and said over and over again how good it felt. Then after those couple of minutes, it was sorta like how we always are, when we're dressed. We talked about normal stuff as we were swimming around.
So then he decides to get out of the water and rest on this big boulder about 100 yards downstream from where we jumped in. I was a little nervous about seeing him naked, and alot nervous about him seeing me. But i followed him up there. So we just hung out and talked for like a whole hour, butt naked, in plain view of each other, on top of that boulder. But nothing happened. We didnt make out or do anything like that. It was just like normal hanging out. Then we walked back to where our clothes were, got dressed, and finished our jog. (well actually we kinda walked the rest of the way). What does this all mean? Was I supposed to make a move? Does this mean he likes me? How am I supposed to act around him now?
Question #10:
Am I overreacting to this?
Ok, I have an in-home daycare provider who I really like, she is a sweetheart and my daughter loves her. There are a few things that have upset me. I came to pick my daughter up one night at 8pm and she was walking around her house in her bikini. She said "Oh I laid out today while the kids were sleeping" You mean to tell me you left my 3 month old daughter inside with 5 other children ranging from 3 mo to 4 years while you "got some sun"? Also at some point between say 4 pm and 8 you couldn't find 2 minutes to put on something over your swimsuit? I didnt make a big deal about it but I made it clear I wasnt super happy about it either. The next day I came to pick the baby up and she had done it again. So I decided to try to find a new sitter. Childcare is impossible to find in the area so in the mean time we decided to leave her where she is. A couple of weeks later I got off early and snuck over there so I could see what she was doing. Her 4 year old answered the door and she was nowhere to be seen. My baby was laying on a blanket on the floor with 2 other babies. The 3 toddlers were running around. I got all of my things together and still no sign of the sitter. I asked her daughter where she was and she told me her mommy was painting her room! Seriously. I called up the stairs and it still took a good bit of hollering for her to notice I was there. Now my husband thinks I should sit her down and talk to her and give her another chance. I feel like her actions show poor judgment and either she will get sneakier or just show poor judgment on other things. Am I over reacting? I am just so afraid that one of the other children can hurt my baby and she will have no clue if she isn't watching them closely. Plus 6 children is a lot for 1 person.Question #11:
Where can I find a supportive under-wire swimsuit? Plus, bonus question!?
I have a problem with swimsuits - they don't *cough* hold me up. So I'm going to need something with under-wire. It's got to be really supportive, and come in some large sizes (38 DDD to be exact). It cannot be a one piece because the bottom would then be too big. I'll have able to buy the top and bottom separately I'd like to not spend a ton of money on this too. $100 is WAY too much.I hope you'll be able to help me!
Bonus question:
Can you find me a bra too? 38 DDD, really supportive. It needs to stay down in the middle. That's one of the main problems I have with bras, they come up in the middle and made a point on my chest. I need it to stay down touching my chest. I'm a teenager, and I need it to do this even when I'm running around with my friends, playing Twister, whatever I want to do. I don't want to have to worry about it.
Thank you for your answers to both my questions!
Question #12:
I Have A Major Issue! Please HELP!?
Ok so I am 16 and wear like a 34-36D bra. I hate it! The problem is that I am very active. I am a dancer and love playing sports as well. But it's extremely annoying that I always have to put on like 3 bras just to hold me down and in my opinion I still don't look quite right when i look at myself in the mirror when I dance. I can't even find the right swimsuit for myself! The bottoms fit but the tops never do! I don't have enough money to get reduction and plus I think I'm a little too young for that now. I just need some advice on where to find a swimsuit for myself and most of all, how to resolve this problem. I want to stop being so self-conscious.Question #13:
I need advice about my period!?
So I'm leaving sunday to go to wildwood for four days with my friends. Well my period is due I'm getting that gurgly bloated feeling in my stomach and the smell that alerts you that it's comming. Now I can't cancel cuz I alread. Got hotel costs paid and even got new swimsuit and clothes plus I would feel bad and I'm only 14 and don't wear tampons cuz my mom doesn't approve plus I'm a worry bug and afraid of them. Now my friend said I can still swim cuz the blood stops when your in the water especially ocean water but you have to be really alert and careful on changing pads when you dry and that worrying takes the fun away. And i don't know what to do. I'm like worryed. And idk any advice? Much appreciated!!Question #14:
How can i lose cellulite?
So i don't have so many of it but i have SOME around my tummy.You can't tell that much but i don't really like them! Im embarrassed to go in a swimsuit.!! Plus, im afraid i might get more! Help!. And please, i don't want rude answers. I just want to know how to get them away!(: Thankyou <3I'm not obese or anything either. I'm slim nd i do workout but they don't seem to go away.
Question #15:
Looking for a particular retro-style swimsuit?
I really like this swimsuit, but I'm cheap. I don't really want to spend like $80-some on a swimsuit I'll wear like 10 times, tops. Also, Esther Williams is not an option, as it takes 1-6 weeks to make the swimsuit, plus shipping.Click Here
I'm looking for something like it for under $60. Please and thanks!
Question #16:
I can't find a swimsuit that fits me, what should i do?
I'm not plus size, and I'm only 17 years old and I have double d breast. I can't find swimsuit tops that fit me. I considered plus size tops, there all tankinis. I don't like that. Any idea/suggestions?Question #17:
Where to buy cute, unique, inexpensive swimsuits?
I need an indie/hippie inspired {maybe} swimsuit& it has to be a tankini..preferably flowing, with a cute, calm design, & a flirty skirted bottom..get where I'm going here??
I need a new swimsuit, that covers my chest, cause I am quite modest...but has a little sex appeal, with the flirty bottoms, plus I have a completely flat butt! ha
I've looked all around websites for hours, & can't find anything..My price range is 40 dollars & under for both. Any ideas??
OH, & I hate peace signs/splatter/plaid/checker/hawwain prints..thanks for the help.
Question #18:
Best swimsuit type for a small girl?
In general I am a pretty small girl. I stand 4'11" and weigh less than a 100 lbs. I'm not a curvy girl; I am definitely pretty skinny. However, in the past year or so my body's changed in sort of a weird way. I now "have" boobs, but I didn't get much of anything else. Going shopping for a new swimsuit is sort of discouraging as I can't figure out what style would complement me best.I am a 32C bra size, 33" in the hips, and I have absolutely no butt lol. The bottoms are the real problem as they normally sag quite a bit in the backside. Everyone usually suggests a string bikini, but I would like something that's a bit different and fun for summer. Plus, I'm not convinced I look that good in them lol. Any suggestions for best types of tops? Bottoms? I'm even open to different types of one piece, if you think that would work.
Question #19:
I REALLY NEED NEW CLOTHES?
hi guys! so im 14 and im trying to lose weight. i know after i lose weight not alot of clothes will fit, and plus i just gave most of my clothes away because they were too small or too young. i havent even had a bathing suit in 4 years! ill make you a list of what i need, and can you tell me how much money i should get? thanks!:3 tops
3 tops
2 camisoles
1 sweatshirt
2 sweaters
1 shirt (like button down)
2 jeans
2 shorts
2 swimsuits
1 board short
Underwear
1 converse
i know i may sound like a spoiled brat, but some of this stuff i havent had in a while like a bathing suit or sweatshirt and the rest of it i have little of like sweaters and shorts/ pants? thanks!
Question #20:
Difference between plus size and regular size swimwear? (SIZES)?
Basically, in trying to shop for swimsuits (Speedo) -- is there a difference between a plus-size "20" and a regular-size "20?"i.e., is there a separate sizing chart for plus sizes, or do regular size "20" - "24" just count as "plus sizes?"
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